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I AM ALL
ABOUT YOU

| Expansion at YOUR pace |

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My devotion is to normalize deep inner work and make sustainable transformation accessible​

MISSION

​​​​To help people learn to reconnect with themselves and their purpose, and to love every part of themselves, every part of life, a little more each day.​ This devotion is my compass — a daily practice of presence and love in action.

 

We accomplish this together in a number of ways: by supporting and nurturing you as you re-learn how to access your innate wisdom and capability. Throughout our work I encourage individuals to radically accept themselves, and to take steps - however small - towards their healing, towards a more authentic self.

My Story

For much of my life, I searched for belonging, confidence, and purpose in the wrong places — achievement, approval, relationships — and I tried to skip the hard parts, not because I didn’t care, but because I didn’t know how to face them.

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It took a breaking point — a collapse of everything I had built — to wake me up. In that unraveling, I made a quiet promise: to stop running from myself, and to turn toward the pain, shame, and fear I had long avoided.

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Meeting each part of myself with tenderness, the pieces began to come together again, not into who I was before, but into something more real, whole, and free.

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Even as a child, I had a quiet knowing that my life would be about truth and helping others on their paths. That knowing reemerged as I guided people through their own challenges, remembering that true healing isn’t about fixing ourselves — it’s about reclaiming who we are beneath the conditioning, learning to live truthfully, and integrating what has been hidden.

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Through this work, life flows differently: relationships deepen, clarity and peace arise, and we awaken to the freedom of being fully, truthfully ourselves.​

-with love, Welmer van der Wel-

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A SAFE CONTAINER
FOR EXPANSION

My work is rooted in truth, compassion, honesty, emotional safety, courage, and humility. 

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Ultimately, these values aren’t abstract ideals — they’re embodied practices. They shape how I listen, how I reflect, and how I hold space for you to take steps toward deeper presence, integration, and your capable, loving self.

​Truth means being willing to see things as they are, not as we wish they were. I don’t bypass pain with positivity or superficial solutions. Together, we meet reality with clear eyes and an open heart.

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Compassion and honesty go hand in hand — I hold space for what’s hard without judgment, while also being lovingly direct about what’s true. This balance creates the conditions for real growth.

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Safety isn’t about avoiding discomfort, but about creating enough trust for you to feel what’s underneath your defenses. Healing unfolds at the pace of your nervous system — never rushed, never forced.

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Courage and humility are the companions of transformation. It takes courage to face yourself, and humility to keep learning, unlearning, and showing up again. I walk this path right alongside you, as a fellow traveler devoted to growth and presence.​

Devotion

This work is not just what I do — it’s what I live. My devotion is to truth, transformation, and the continuous, sacred work of coming home to ourselves.

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I am devoted to the path of inner work — to meeting what’s difficult with presence, and to walking beside others as they learn to do the same. My life has shown me again and again that real change doesn’t come from effort alone, but from the courage to feel, to face what’s been avoided, and to trust what unfolds.

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I am devoted to my clients — to seeing their challenges not as problems to overcome, but opportunities to remember truth and expand beyond their current capacity. Every person carries an innate wisdom, and it’s my honor to help them reconnect with it — caringly, honestly, and at the pace their nervous system allows.​

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